EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
"And teach them to your children..." (Duet. 11:19).
Heaven is my witness that I was very sorrowful whenever I saw people
quarrelling, and I was unable to make peace between them. I have also
felt very bad about the troubles of the poor, the destitute and the
sick.
I have also had great sorrow upon seeing breaches appear among our
people. In many things the eruption is greater than what has remained
steadfast, and the great rabbis of Israel do not have the ability to
close the breaches because people do not listen to them. This is
especially disturbing when it happens in matters pertaining to the
highest things in the world.
One of these is the cruelty that many parents adopt towards their
children. They cause them evil in this world and in the world of truth
by denying their children the gift of free choice, removing them
entirely from the study of Torah in order to teach them secular studies
alone. Thus, the children become bad, sinners, and they do whatever
they want openly as well as secretly.
These foolish parents do not consider what is the purpose for which a
person labors all the days of his life. He does not rest day or night,
and he forces himself to go without many things -- all for the sake of
his children. And now his children go on a way whose end is ashes; all
his labor becomes vanity and emptiness.
Did Israel not know, were the people of G-d not given the opportunity
to consider? What bitterness these parents will find when they come to
the world of truth and the heavenly court asks them if they read the
"shema" every day? They will answer, "yes." Then they will be asked,
"Did you not read there in the first and second chapters, `Review them
with your children...,' and `Teach them to your children....' Why did
you not fulfill these words that your mouth was uttering?"
Woe to them for that shame! Woe to them over their embarrassment at
that time in the world of truth. It is terrrible and frightening to see
thousands and myriads of people who do not consider their end, at which
time they will certainly regret it, but it will be a time when regret
will not help them, and they will not be able to fix what was deformed.
And woe to the eyes that have seen this, and woe to the ears that have
heard about this: how the holy faith has weakened among thousands of
people. They do not believe in all this because of the influence of the
many false intellectuals, who themselves together with their ideas are
built of nothing. Although they and their inquiries are vanity, their
words nevertheless enter into the hearts of thousands of people, taking
them for a ride, detering them from the holy Torah and G-d's mitzvot.
Everybody does whatever he thinks is right in his own mind, and the
true sages of the generation do not have the power to stop these
breaches.
Concerning this thing, and others like it, the blood of my heart runs
out like a river. I have always sought heavenly mercy for it, my limbs
trembling, prostrated and bowed with a torn heart. I pour out my heart.
May he close the breaches of our people, and send us the righteous
redeemer. Then the spirit of G-d will be poured forth upon all flesh,
to know Him, from the greatest to the smallest.
(Divrei Emet)