EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
The mashgiach of Yeshivat Mir, Rabbi Yerucham z"l, told the students
about a time he visited the big city of Vilna. He stayed as a guest in
someone's house. Once he looked through the window there, and he saw
situated across the street a "gymnasia" -- a public school which was
attended by gentiles and non-religious Jewish teenagers, boys and girls
together. He saw that when they came to school in the morning they
displayed immodesty, acted foolishly and light-headed, and used unclean
speech one with the other.
When they entered the building Rabbi Yerucham sat down to think. He
told himself that these youth were attending an institution of
education. They were learning something. They heard lectures, asked
questions, received explanations. They reviewed the material, passed
tests, completed the course of study and acquired diplomas. When they
finished they knew the subjects they had studied.
He then asked himself what would be the result if one young woman
entered into the midst of 400 students studying Torah in the Bet
Midrash of Yeshivat Mir? Would it have been possible to continue
studying? Would something like that not harm everyone and make
continued study entirely impossible?
Therefore, how was it possible that these young men and women sit
together in the "gymnasia," males and females intermixed, yet learning
and knowing the subjects they were studying? How is it possible that
the situation of mixed classes does not bother them?
Rabbi Yerucham concluded that this proves the kedushah of the holy
Torah. Kedushah (holiness) cannot bear tuma (spiritual defilement). One
single impurity can upset an entire yeshivah!
Within the secular studies of the "gymnasia" there is much tuma. Tuma
gets along with tuma; it loves defilement, whether it is a category of
light tuma or heavy tuma. One assists the other. Therefore, impurity
does not bother them. They are wallowing in impurity all day long. Why
should it bother them?
In contrast, we are bothered and stopped by even one impure thought.
This is a proof of the kedushah of the Torah, that we are studying a
holy Torah!
(An excerpt from a lecture by Rabbi Shlomoh Bravda)