EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
"And place within our heart to understand, to perceive, to hear, to
learn and to teach...." We make this request every day, day after day,
and then we immediately forget that we made this request of G-d.
This is like a very poor man who turned to a rich man to ask for a loan
of fifty golden coins because he had a chance to do a business deal
that might stand him on his feet. The wealthy man agreed to make the
loan, but he said that he did not have the money with him at that
particular moment. He told the poor man to come to his house in the
evening to receive the money.
That night the rich man did not leave his house because he was
expecting the poor man to come for the loan, but the poor man did not
come. The rich man thought that he must have been detained for some
unexpected reason.
The next day the two met again, and the poor man began again to request
from the rich man a loan because he has a chance to make business, etc.
The rich man said, "I told you yesterday that the money is ready and
waiting for you. You only need to come in the evening to my house, as
we agreed, and collect the loan."
That night the rich man again stayed home, but once again the poor man
did not arrive. And then, on the third day, the two met again, and the
poor man began once again to make his request to the rich man. This
time the rich man could not control himself and he rebuked the poor
man. "You are a liar and a faker. I have offered you all the money you
have requested, and I have wasted several hours in order to make myself
and the money available to you, and you did not come for the money. You
are a faker."
It is the same with us. G-d is definitely prepared to give us
understanding and intellect, even more than we are prepared to receive
it. Undoubtedly, He is ready every moment to help us hear, learn and
teach, to guard and to do. All He wants from us is one thing -- to come
to the study hall, to sit down to learn, to fix times for Torah.
However, it seems that all these prayers and requests we are making of
Him are only expressions of our lips. They are nice statements that we
say during prayers, but immediately afterwards our attention and our
minds are turned to the transitory and even the foolish things of this
world, and we do not give any consideration to the words we said a few
moments beforehand.
And then, the next day we ask again, and then we ask again, day after
day.
Concerning this unfortunate phenomenon the prophet has cried, "Take
with you words..." (Hoshea 14:3). In other words, take the words of
your requests, do not forget them, pay attention to them, and then,
"...Return to G-d." Then you will return in teshuvah shlaimah.
(Mishlai Hachofetz Chaim)