EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
Before the shaliach tzibur who prays in the name of the entire
congregation begins the Mussaf (Additional) Prayer, he prays his own
private supplication. "Behold, I am poor in deeds...." He does not see
himself fit for the important mission that has been placed upon him.
Therefore, he prays for G-d to help him, "I have come to stand before
You and beseech for Your people, Israel. They have sent me, even though
I am not fitting and proper for it. Therefore, I am asking You, G-d of
Avraham..., make the way upon which I am going successful...."
He further requests, "Do not embarrass me...." May I be successful in
my mission, and may no shame fall upon those who have sent me. Also,
"Do not shame them." May those who sent me behave properly in order to
merit to G-d's blessing and forgiveness.
We, the people who educate children, are also messengers of the
community. In the first place, every father must teach his child Torah.
Rabbi Yehoshua ben Gamla then established that teachers will be the
intermediaries of the fathers.
Needless to say, as anyone else who must see himself without sufficient
power, we must plead with G-d to assist us. See how appropriate to this
is another part of the prayer of the shaliach tzibur before Mussaf,
"Please, be with the mouths of the messengers of Your people, the House
of Israel... that they should not falter, that their recitations should
not stutter..., and their mouths should not utter something that is not
according to Your Will...." The mouth is the instrument of the
educator, and how much we need the help of G-d for this instrument to
fulfill its destiny properly.
The month of Elul is the beginning of the school year. All beginnings
are difficult until habits are set on the right way, until the teacher
knows the students, until the students know the new rebbe. Thus, the
month of Elul is full with many difficulties. It is a month when one
esppecially feels the accuracy of the sayings, "The time is short, and
there is much work," and "Will you put your eyes upon it, but it is
already gone..." (Proverbs 23:5).
Besides the regular learning syllabus, special preparation, both
educational and psychological, is needed for the Days of Awe: Elul,
Selichot, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and Succot. Each of these special
days need a lot of time for the study of its laws and its meanings.
There is no time for all that is needed, and especially between Yom
Kippur and Succot.
Some were accustomed to learn the laws and meanings of Succot in the
beginning of Elul. In the middle of Elul they would begin to study
about Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and the Days of Penitence. In any case,
this is a matter that requires exact planning in order to fulfill what
is required.
The month of Elul, by its very nature, is perfect for the inculcation
of yirat shamayim (awe of G-d). These days are called "Days of Will".
What is this "will"? During these days there is a special assistance
from Heaven for anyone who strives to be successful in the inculcation
of yirat shamayim. We must use these days of will to excite the hearts
of the students and arouse them to yirat shamayim, to being exact in
the performance of mitzvot, diligence in the study of Torah, precision
over every word of the prayers.
May this month be a basis for yirat shamayim throughout the year.
(A section of a speech by Rabbi Chaim Friedlander z"l to educators)