EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
"They corrupted; it is not His, but His children's blemish; a generation which is perverse and crooked" (Duet. 32:5).
For the sins which a person commits as a consequence of his desires
there is ultimately something to say in the way of an apology. The
sinner was not able to gather enough strength to overcome his evil
inclination. "He knows our inclination; He will remember that we are
dust." However, the sins which a person commits because of lack of
faith, or because he has been influenced by atheistic beliefs, do not
have any claim of apology. It was not desire which drove the sinner to
it.
It is possible to recognize which of these factors motivates a person to
sin by the education which he gives to his children. If the motivation
is only desire, he will at least try to educate his children in a good
way. However, if the motivating factor is lack of faith, then he will
also corrupt his children by allowing them an education full of false
opinions.
Thus, it is written, "...It is not His." Their corruption cannot be
ascribed in any way to G-d because it does not come from the evil
inclination which G-d created. "...It is His children's blemish." It
belongs to them. Also, "...It is his children's blemish," because it can
be seen that the blemish in their children comes from parents whose
faith is deficient, and not from the mere overpowering of the evil
inclination.
Ketav Sofer
There are people who seem to be faithful to the tradition of Torah, and
we cannot find any fault in them. However, deeply hidden within them
they are corrupt, and this becomes apparent when we judge the education
which they provide for their children. A Jewish person who gives his
children a non-Jewish education proves that all his Jewishness is
superficial and merely habitual. In his inner soul he is far away from
true Judaism.
Thus, it is written, "He corrupts...," but apparently, "it is not
his...," because we do not see in him any sign of corruption. Perhaps,
he even conducts himself as a fine Jew. Nevertheless, "...it is his
children's blemish." The blemish which becomes revealed in his children
is really his corruption. He has given them an unwholesome education,
and as a consequence, he has raised "a perverse and crooked generation."
Avnai Ezel